Do you forgive easily ???

[nassira]

hi folks ,

I have a question for you : Do you forgive easily or do you hold grudges when someone has hurt or upset you ??

As we know to err is human, to forgive is divine... But if the pain is difficult to bear, how can you forgive and forget easily ???

[alexander]

to be honest i forgive but i don't forget. and when someone hurt me again, i feel it double.

[Fanida]

Like alexander, i can forgive easily, but never forget

[nassira]

you are right we can never forgive ..

and this is my worst atitud too , I can tell to the one who hurt me it's ok , nevermind ...but the relationship is already broken and maybe for ever.. because I find it difficult to fully trust that person ever again.


I can give people the second chance (it depends of the incident and the severity of the pain that someone has done).
but I've never given the third chance !

[nassira]

	Citation:			Posté par Fanida
	Like alexander, i can forgive easily, but never forget

it depends on what has been done and by whom, I mean how that person is close to me ...we know that nobody is perfect and the life is chort but we can not forget easily !

[sadalif]

How can you ask for God forgiveness if you cannot forgive yourself?
It's quite difficult to forget but you must forgive to be able to forget...

[-sunrise-]

for me i forgive anyone easily i don't know if this is good or bad habit but i swear whenever someone hurts me i say that i won't forgive him/her but after a while i say '' loussami7 karim ''

[Casawia]

	Citation:			Posté par sadalif
	How can you ask for God forgiveness if you cannot forgive yourself? It's quite difficult to forget but you must forgive to be able to forget...

exactly!

What's the point of forgiving if you can't forget?

[L9ant]

When I'm upset because of someone's bad behaviour, and in order to seek may forgiveness, he has simply to invite for a couple of beers and I just let it go !!

PS : Teacher Casawia, take your red pen and follow me

[alexander]

	Citation:			Posté par Casawia
	exactly! What's the point of forgiving if you can't forget?

you keep a record

no! you know things happen, so of course we hurt each other. however, if you are a good friend such a thing doesn't happen frequently. so with time you forget. but if he keep doing it many times that's a proof that he careless for your feeling. in this case i can't forget, and with few more mistakes and i ll not forgive!!!!